The Family that we grow up in, is very important to our development in so many ways. Our original family unit give us primary male and female roles models, as well as socialisation around Behaviour Patterns, Love, Culture, Morals – to name but a few. All this and more forms the Code of Conduct with which we approach our life.
The family introduces us to the world of relationships, through which some of our most significant development will be expressed.
If you grew up in an idyllic situation where all your needs were met physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually – then Home provides a wonderful safe haven.
However it is much more likely that somewhere in the family scenario there will be challenges, difficulties and gaps in your nurturing. This is not to criticise anyone’s relatives – rather to explain that when our needs are not met (for whatever reason or situation) a hole is created in our energy field.
For as long as these wounds, shortfalls, gaps or losses are not dealt, they will simply continue to run. All this negative energy can adversely affect our energy flow, vitality, good fortune, well-being, comfortability and success.
It is also possible in inherit energy patterns, stagnations and wounds from your Lineage. Just think how easy it is to be connected to a vast array of relatives and the possibilities quickly widen up.
Add into the mix any energetic wounds or blocks that remain stagnant on your family line from past centuries/millennia and you may be correct in thinking that not all that happens to you is not your own doing.
There are so many situations and circumstances in our Ancestor’s past where negative energy persists – common re-occurring events such as war, famine, disease, money-troubles, arranged marriages, natural disasters and more – all make their mark.
